About happy birthdays

I haven't had so very good birthdays but across the years I have learned something of how to succeed in celebrating them.
Birthdays are typically thought of as time for the person oneself, like for example eating some quite ordinary food that one likes or diving to a favourite book (haven't done that on a birthday though) or going for a walk to watch the beauty around. Competition often affects that others do not wish one to succeed as well as they do in their birthdays.

At an older age presents often fail,become impossible to use as if one ought not celebrate that way but instead give such presents to the younger ones or to those in trouble.

As older I have noticed that on celebration days it is good to think of how years pass, life changes and the world too, about the future with the help of higher wisdom and art, write a few words of it down and maybe draw a picture too and sign it with the time and olace.

Before my birthdays during the last few years I have had a season of a few days with atmoshere of birthday approaching, while then near the birthday the atmosphere has been ruined, one year they cut smaller trees nex top our house where I begin my morning walk with the dog so that it hasn't yet grown again. It used to be a world of it's own inside the forest patch but now one can see houses throuygh. But can it be that one ought to celebrate birthdays supposing that it is a wrong day, so much wrong that one ought not celebrate it then? Or is the ordinary way of celebrating somehow ruining the days near the correct day?

I think that on celebration days a good atmosphere just comes fromsomewhere, is around at a certain moment, and it is of a certain kind, not an atmosphere of the person celebrating but instead of some culture's view or of birds or the like, and so one can tune to it for a short while, but one cannot celebrate in some other way and have the atmosphere, and so some tend to have a good birthday like atmosphere while others don't and it aren't so much a question fo succeeding but more like of following the advices of the atmosphere.
A similar atmosphere at other times of the year here in a countryside town has often come from a thought of having Christmas year around, see https://picturesfrommyhome.blogspot.com/2020/02/christmas-year-around.html . I wonder can it be at other places some other thing that the culture offers, like at the capital district civiliced wisdom and life according to it and healthy ages old ways of living, like is very much valued there. Can it be also that each person gets a chance to a life that one much creates, like I have written thousands of these somewhat present like texts,so I guess someone would think it Christmas like or a Christmas like inclination of mine or of the local culture I live by.